<<i don't care if you're on this tribe...>>

your words say otherwise

<<i just didn't understand why you were interested in being part of the tribe. >>

read my original post again

<< i'm not in the habit of getting into arguments online either>>

so, this was an unfortunate one time thing then?

<<but i have to point out that your assumption (about my "control issues") is incorrect, >>

i beg to differ.

<< and considering that you don't know me (as we've already established), we can just leave it at that.>>

i did not come here seeking trouble. not my thing to seek trouble but, i certainly will not be intimidated.

i posted my question here because, as i mentioned, i enjoyed that particular party. really, i have rather fond memories.


lotsa love to you all the same and please, sit a moment and just take everything in. everything is fragile. handle yourself with care, you deserve that much.

Too bad someone can't ask for pictures of a party and just have people post pictures of the stupid party.

Sorry Nat, but it sounded to me like you were saying this tribe is, or should be, only for people who would be considered (by you) to be an "ok" and I do know you. First, your assumption that if someone was at that party you had to know them and then that if they were on this tribe they should be people who attend "ok" events (and by the way, what exactly is an "ok" event? Is Coacella an "ok" event? What about Fuente? Alma? LIB? BM but only if they ride on the Flower? Any party Porter spins at? Hipgen's winter ball? Nexus? Yuri's night? Moontribe, but only if Jupiter is spinning? Spaceman's secret santa? D&D at Rosen's house? What if they sat in the big orange a few years ago? Seriously, what the heck?) There are a lot of people who would say there is no such thing as an ok event. There have been a few people on "our own site" who have never considered themselves or most of the people on that site to be Orange Kids.

"I just met this cool girl/guy at a club/party/festival/in line-for-hot-dogs-on-a-stick last night! He/she's our kind of person! Come on! Let's welcome her/him to our family!" I see invites worded like that all the damn time followed by four sets of "Oh hell yes! He/she was really nice and shared her/his lemonade with me and has a nice ass!" The big difference is that on the site people who don't keep in touch (by at least logging on) drop off the list. Have you noticed that Jordan is still there but Adam W isn't?

The whole, only, and complete description/explanation/mission statement for this tribe is as follows:
intergalactic rodents unite!

Nat, you got to admit that your statement "i have to assume i know you if you were at that party! " was just as presumptuous as a 'stranger' assuming you have control issues. I will say, as someone who does know you, that RS shows incite in his evaluation, and based on what's here on this thread, I'd've made the same conclusion. If, in fact, you are not accustomed to online debate, the skill of avoiding that kind of presentation in your communications is understandable. Though somehow I have the feeling that you have ample opportunity without the benefit of understanding.